To Each His Own
A couple of things have happened recently that have got me thinking about books, readers, snap judgments, and personal preferences, and I needed to vent my spleen. First, I posted a comment over at Dear Author regarding a review of Melissa Marr’s new book, Ink Exchange. Secondly, there has been a HUGE debate over Stephenie Meyer’s Twilight on the YALSA listserv between those who “love” it and those who “hate” it and everyone in between. [I'm an in between.] I’m not going to rehash or try to summarize the debate or the back and forth responses, but you can read the blog that sparked the debate here.
What I would like to do is share what I’ve taken away from this “lively discussion:” that everyone has their own likes, dislikes, preference, etc. A couple of people have commented that a reader will take what they need from a book. TRUE! That every book has a reader. TRUE! Therefore, what I may enjoy reading others may not. What I may “read into” a book could just be my own imagining, history, or personal baggage and not what the author intended. That I may totally not “get” the author’s message at all - if there was even an intended message to begin with! That as an adult, I tend to over think a book where a teen probably won’t.
The other item I took away from this is a greater appreciation for the power of books and of words. That authors (& books) get people talking, debating, discussing, and just plain READING! No matter what the author’s intentions were with their story, the fact that people enjoy them (or hate them) means that people are READING! And in my case, the TEENS are READING! Both the girls AND the guys! Isn’t that what I, as a librarian, want? Heck, YES! Do I have concerns with these books, yes, but that is an opportunity to open discussion, not a time to shoot down the books and/or author.
While everyone is entitled to their opinion, myself included, we shouldn’t be telling anyone (adult or teen) what they should/shouldn’t read. Leave it up to the reader to form their own opinion! If one of my patrons checks out a book I didn’t like, I don’t tell them “That’s a horrible book, don’t waste your time!” I usually ask them to tell me what they think of the book after they’ve read it. I’d love to have their opinion, whether or not it matches my own. Okay, ‘nough said, stepping down from my soapbox.
